Boundaries in dating book review
Boundaries is the book that's helped over 2 million people learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of their lives. Perhaps you feel like you have to say yes to everyone's requests.Maybe you find yourself readily taking responsibility for others' feelings and problems. Henry Cloud and John Townsend help you learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of your life and set healthy, biblical boundaries with your spouse, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even yourself.He was smothered by his mother, so he ran from any sign of that occurring in future women. Monogamy didn’t work for Old Neil because he felt that is was an obligation. Making monogamy a conscious CHOICE is what most people do because they need someone to fill them up. He didn’t share his sexual preferences or ask for hers. He blamed her for not allowing him to Fuck other people.They are co-dependent and need others to make them happy. He acted out a personal denial of responsibility for his behavior. His low Self-Esteem and feelings worthlessness caused him to act out for acceptance. He had a false paradigm about human “Intimacy is like a fire. The bigger it gets, the less you want to throw water on it.Once we are able to attract these once “unattainable” dream girls, we no longer want them. Once we reach the peak of one mountain, we see another higher peak that as unyielding and querulous men, we must strive for.We obtain this “power” (value) that we never had before and we end up brandishing it like some aggressive Excalibur that simultaneously attracts and stabs the person right in the heart.When the only time she is passionate is when she’s criticizing you, you cheat.You start to look for someone who appreciates your presence.
These laws and social scripts helped Neil to completely transform himself from a shy sensitive nice-guy into a guy that is irresistible to women.
When she holds so much resentment towards you that it poisons your soul, you cheat.