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Lundquist often sees people who are unable to move on simply because they’re not willing to deal with the fact that the relationship is over.
This can lead to an unhealthy pattern of breaking up and getting back together where nothing ever changes.
Jaime and Joe had one of those summertime romances that only exist in New York, filled with drinks that turn into lengthy dinners, evenings out with friends, and even trips to the gym that somehow still felt incredibly romantic. It was the quintessential “it’s not you, it’s me” speech.
But for Jaime, who was a late 20-something working in public relations at the time, the relationship wasn’t just a summer fling. It wasn’t easy, but it was a fairly clean break, except for the fact that they both worked in PR and inevitably bumped into each other at industry events.
But those who come out on the other side of time apart gain a sense of confidence and gratitude that couldn’t be won any other way.
Of course we can never really know what might’ve happened had things played out differently.
The next time you enter into a relationship, you and your partner can add to that happiness, not create it from scratch.