She and I made eye contact when she heard what my girlfriend said. Her look more or less told me, "You would be a lot happier with me and you know it! I already knew that my relationship with C would never last long term, I was just too lazy to break it off.But that day I decided that if/when I did, I would be open to dating bigger girls.In the interest of keeping this short, I am not going to share every milestone on my journey of personal growth.Suffice to say that I gradually warmed to the idea of dating bigger girls.But I also do not think that my attraction for bigger girls is anything abnormal, nor is it something to be embarrassed about. But I will recognize that it is not necessarily mainstream, and I have had my preferences questioned by others along the way. Well, I am 32 years old and while I believe that I have always had this preference, only when I got serious about dating did I actually acknowledge it.I would go so far as to theorize that I am just hardwired for it. I can recall as early as high school thinking that some of the bigger girls in my class were cute.Why is it so difficult to accept that losing weight is a significant challenge for some while it is second nature for others?My wife has an above average knowledge of nutrition and fitness.
We all have our preferences and they are as varied and different as we ourselves are. If that is the case, I was probably destined to be a chubby chaser long before being a chaser of any kind was even on my mind. I like bigger girls, I think I was always meant to be with a bigger girl, and I wouldn't change anything about the experiences that I've had.
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