Dating mtf transsexuals

22-Sep-2020 21:24

They aren’t the only lens which you can view the world through.Take sexuality for example, there’s three main ways I’ve seen where people try to include trans people in sexuality.So yes, trans women are male, but rather than throw the whole system people have gotten used to using out the window, it can be slightly modified to include trans identities.

Maybe at some point I’ll put them all together as a big rebuttal.

The first being to just apply sexuality as it is in the cis het normative perspective. This one is obviously not one which works for a lot of trans people.

The second being that we keep the cis het normative perspectives — but we also allow for exceptions to the rule.

They aren’t merely saying how something is, but how something should be, or shouldn’t be.

They’re saying whether something is good or bad, or right or wrong. Is it wrong to say trans women are gay if they date men (or women)?Especially in the presence of all the messy new information which tends to really throw a spanner in the strict binary idea.

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