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Yesterday I decided to get my hair blown out and straightened (not the smartest decision considering its raining today, but whatever.) The woman who does my hair moved to a unisex hair salon in Harlem, so I made my way over to see her.It was a Sunday and the place was more or less empty.When I emerged from the bathroom a few minutes later and had to slip past them again. The men went completely silent and I could feel three sets of eyes on me. I think it's harder for most BBW women to go to the bars and pick a guy up because they don't know if the guy is interested or not. If that's the body type they're interested in, online dating makes that a lot easier. A lot of these women have had surgeries and have lost weight, but they still stay involved with the community. But I also think that it's easier to say, "This is what I am interested in so I am going to message this person," and the same thing goes for men who are interested in BBW women.They don't realize how much fun they are or how attractive they really are.
I guess it's just part of dating someone a different size than you.There is fetishism of the BBW community, so I make it very clear when I start talking to somebody online that if they're not attracted to all body types, I won't date them.