My best friend is dating my brother
The last straw was when I saw Todoroki making a move on Deku by scooting closer to him on the couch and putting his arm around him! After Deku left to his home, I talked to my parents about it. Finding a great guy to date nowadays seems impossible for some women, so when she finds what seems like the perfect guy, she should go for it, right?He’s cute, he’s funny, smart and you two really seem to hit it off. A girlfriend of mine found herself in this predicament.Who wants to picture their sibling getting busy with anyone, let alone with your best friend? Just the thought of all the “what ifs” is too much for me and I’m not even in the situation.I can see how it would get tricky and, possibly, messy. Once I weighed the pros and cons of dating a friend’s brother, I began to see how it might not be worth all the potential drama.When I asked her why her brother was upset, she said her brother’s explanation was simply, “That’s just not what black people do.” I could see if he was upset because she kept a secret from him or because maybe he thought his friend wasn’t good enough for his baby sister, but to make it a cultural thing seemed strange to me.
Needless to say her brother wasn’t too thrilled about it.
I’ve also never been attracted to any of my girlfriends’ brothers, so I’ve avoided that conflict altogether.