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I was fine with a guy simply saying, "hey, how are you? I'd decide whether or not to respond after I viewed their pics and read their profile anyway.
I heard this somewhere before and personally believe it to be misleading.
A woman that doesn't say much in her profile and is seeking attention based soley on her pics probably isn't looking for substance in others either IMO.
I've been on one for the past 4 months and have met some girls off it, but I'm really not getting a high percentage of my messages responded to.
I live in a hugely diverse area but I did have more luck when I lived in a bigger city . The only thing I can tell you, is that online dating is even more of a number game than real life. Perhaps have a template, and swap out certain portions of it to match their profile.
Then again that is just me but I do get more message than I can deal with. It's based on how many women you can spam in a given period of time. 4) Target women that have recently signed up as opposed to long time veterans. I am black and not overweight - and get no where near as much messages as people claim women get.
For instance, instead of telling the person how much you hate bowling, reality shows and pretentious men in your letter, tell him how much you like roller skating, sitcoms and humble men.
Attach a photo to your email if you feel comfortable doing so, but preferably after the second or third contact.I live in a very diverse area with a large African American population.