The problem with dating single moms
I need to get to know you and figure out if I even think you will be a good influence on them, on me.
Until that criteria is met you won't meet them. I knew him for years and he knew the kids long before we even considered dating one another. I don't resent my mum at all & she will forever have all my love & respect, but you really hit home here.
No matter how you phrase it, or what you think, I'm not dating you, I'm dating you and your kid.
And it's my responsibility to understand that as well.
I will never understand why women are so quick to introduce the kids.However, I would like to know of the men out there who WOULD in fact date a single mother, what sorts of things would open you up to that prospect (maybe you find independence/strength sexy?) as well as turn you off to it (maybe she's negligent or has perpetual baby daddy issues).No offense, but this is only intended for those of you who WOULD in fact date a single mom.
Being a solo mom myself, I've come to understand there are PLENTY of men that don't want to date us and I respect your opinion and choice.
Some of that shit is still with me till this day (I'm 22 now).