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After a few months of this, I decided that quicker was better - since I discovered that no matter what I thought of the person, until I met them and could be face to face, I didn't know squat.
I could be incredibly attracted by their picture, their profile, the words they used in emails, even their voice and conversation, but more often than not, it all changed once face to face.
Only because you get into this rhythm of emailing each other back and forth for WEEKS sometimes - and finally when you get around to setting a time to talk on the phone, or just meet for coffee, you realize the online connection doesn't translate over to the physical world.
This happened with 1 guy who I had a great connection over email, but when we met in person - there was no connection, no attraction, no chemistry, nothing. In my view, I think spending at least 1 week emailing to discuss the preliminaries is fine.
Also remember there are a lot of scammers out there that want your money..
I prefer to hold off on exchanging numbers until I have established that he is someone I actually want to meet. I did have to change my number due to a wacko calling me at all hours for a while, so I am even more apprehensive about giving a number out so quickly.Yes, I met my husband that way and yes, we've been married over 10 years. Once, even a parking lot because the guy had met so many women who claimed to have only a few extra pounds, when in reality they lied big time both about their weight and their age.